"My suggestion is that in life, you can be one of two things: the man in the arena, or one of the spectators. I think that seminars, books, internet sites, and forums are great opportunities to transfer information, but I am sure that many people leave these devices without ever asking their own questions. In essence, they are just spectators. So remember, where you are is exactly where you are supposed to be in relation to the things you either did or did not do, questions you did or did not ask. As long as you are cool with your current situation it is ok. If you are not and you are blaming it on someone else or because of something you did not find out, accept that it is your fault. Anything less is delusional."
-- Martin Rooney